A friend of mine posted me a very common yet tough question. She asked which is more important to me, Love or Money.

To be frank, It takes a combination of both to make one truly happy. Those who chose only love are either deceiving themselves or they truly are satisfied with what they have. Those who chose only money, probably thinks that money could buy anything.

If there was a gun pointed to my head and i had to choose between money or love. I would still go with money. No, I'm not materialistic, just being realistic. Let's face it, money gets you almost everywhere. It can even buy you love. Yes, that person may not love you for who you are but honestly, are you representing who you are on your first date? Every guy will try their best to impress the other party. The girls will strut everything out should she be interested in that guy. So are you falling for that person for who she is? No.

Money, to me is just a tool to increase your chance of finding a partner. Love on the other hand, I would say something predestined my God.

Love also comes in many other form. Some love their parent so much that anything that is asked of them by their will be fulfilled. Some love their pets so much that they make sure the receive the best food, vet and treatment. Love, i think is something you should start from within you. Fill yourself up with love and when you have loved yourself so much, it spills over and out of you. Only then will you show love to those around you.

wanlep